1. Love and honor your mother.
Learn from her mistakes. It will
save you a lot of headache in your
thirties (30s) and beyond.

2. You are more talented than you’ll
ever know. You don’t need to sleep with your Boss/
supervisor to get a
promotion at work or better grades
at school. Burn late night candles;
put extra time to study and practice until you master your skill. Hard work still pays well and does not kill.

3. Women can build a strong
support network. Don’t let few
ladies with “Pull Her Down”{PHD}
syndrome discourage you from cultivating true relationship with your female friends.

4. When a man you meet for the
first time babbles about how much
he earns working for an oil
company and how rich he is, that is
a red flag. He is either a married smooth-talker who just wants to
sleep with you or he is childish.
Walk away from deceit.

5. Make your own money. Start
small. Maintain a stable bank
account. It will keep you out of trouble.

6. When you meet your Soul mate,
don’t forget to wear your most
priceless ornament- submission and
humility. But while waiting for him,
don’t cling to any man to rescue you. Some men
these days are also seeking for who will rescue them.

7. Know your body. Look at yourself
in front of a full-length mirror at
least once a week, naked and after
clothed. Know your body and how it works.

8. Life is a gift. But to revel in it, you must be ready to put a lot into
nurturing your gifts/ talents and
skills. Start early.

9. Teenage ended at 19. Clocking 20 means doing
away with childish
behaviour. But it does not mean you should forget to have fun. You can catch fun and not be dirty.

10. Learn the basic skills and let
yourself grow- from how to keep your underwear
clean, cook,
socialize, and network to how to drive a car.

11. Don’t do drugs. It kills. Read
books, it fortifies. Dance as often as
you can, it liberates your spirit, soul and body.

12. Partnership builds bridges.
Don’t ever forget that.

13. Eat healthy. Learn to cook for
yourself. Don’t rely on noodles
alone. The cooking skill will be useful in future.

14. Don’t give up when you fail. Try
again and again. Don’t give up on
education/ learning.

15. Fear of the future. It is a state
of mind you must learn to tame. Don’t let fear pull the
carpet from
under your feet. The Holy Books
tells us that God has not given us a
spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind.

16. Let go of past hurts. You cannot move forward if
you keep looking
back. Holding on to bitter
experiences and regrets will stale
your future.

17. Learn to exhale, love deeply and
be kind to others, especially those of low estate, and
the lowest of low.

18. You are beautiful the way you
are. Don’t compare yourself to

19. Prayer is the master key. Have
faith in God and always have the courage to use your voice wisely.
Dream big today. Fear simply means
False Evidence Appearing Real. Enjoy
the highs and lows that come with being in your 20s but don’t be afraid to grow older. Live life to the fullest and don’t forget to smile always!


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